I just found out the truth about my fiance, she cheated on me with another guy. I don't even know what to do.
I just found out the truth about my fiance, she cheated on me with another guy. I don't even know what to do.
i wouldnt suggest what i would do. but best thing would be try to move on and not let this rip u apart because if it dont kill you, will only make you stronger. But i hope she wasnt ur "fiance" and just gf seeing that ur young o.o;. Working out, music, mary jane. helps. Hope you feel better!
Ive had experience with cheating, i have more tolerance than most people so i gave her more chances than any1 ever needs, the relationship cant, and wont work anymore because deep down, even if you say out loud that its all right, you wont ever trust her again. Trust is 99% of a relationship, if thats gone, what else do you have?
Should probably tell her, that its over and you'll move on, dont see her for a long time, i got over my ex in just 1 day, but then again, im not a normal person, and can move on from things very easily. But, you too can move on from this, just dont dwell on what you know now, and move on. The more you think about it, the more upset you will get, and it will affect your life.
I agree with you on the trust. Thats my thing.
Im sorry dear. I know what its like to be cheated on. All i can tell you is that obviously she didnt deserve you and you will find someone much better out there. I know its hard but you can get thru this and will be a much stronger person in the end. *hugs
a cheater is a cheater. There are people you meet who would never cheat on a lover. Cheating is never necessary, if you want to mess around you can by staying single. Cheaters are just selfish. They want both and not worth the grief. You can do much better and there is a lot of girls out there to meet!
It may seem of little consolation now, but better you found out now before getting married. leaving a marriage is considerably more difficult that leaving an engagement. She is not worth YOUR time.
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this too is a good thingOriginally Posted by Mana
There is no way I can go back to her. she betrayed the most sacred thing of all, she was intimate with another man. I could not return to her now.
all at the same time i find myself wanting to return to her.
Last edited by Abschatten; 11-15-2011 at 04:38 PM.
because it is in human nature to try to "fix" things. is it wrong, no ive felt the same way before. However your remembering the good times, and wanting to go back. the thing is you cant, all you can do is move forward get on with life. it will hurt for a while but it WILL fade and will be a distant memory.
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